Includes bibliographical references (pages 428-444) and index.

I pledge allegiance to myself and the united state of my sexuality -- Your sexuality and your body: an owner's manual -- The problem with perfect: body image: or, why appearance isn't all it appears -- Sex starts with you: arousal, orgasm, masturbation, and fantasy -- So much more than either/or: gender identity and sexual orientation -- You, me, and everyone else: big outside influences on your sexuality -- On board the relationship -- To be, or not to be sexually active -- Popular mechanics: the ins and outs of sex with partners -- Safe and sound: safer sex for your body, heart, and mind -- Harm's way: abuse and assault (and what you can do about them) -- To be or not to be pregnant: contraception -- Oh, baby (or not): reproduction and reproductive options -- How to change the world (without even getting out of bed) -- Appendix A: Common sexually transmitted infections: STIs from A to Z -- Appendix B: Bibliography and recommended resources -- The people in your neighborhood: your DIY local resource page.